My oldest was so dynamic…so animated…so opinionated…would my second little girl get lost in her shadows? My oldest was a force to be reckon with…a child who demanded attention at every turn. But my second child was laid back…easy going…quiet…and entertained herself…would she get lost in the shuffle? I use to worry when my first born would run the show and set the mood for the entire family for each day. If she was happy, the family was happy, if she was having an off day…so did we. Was this fair to my second born? Would this be the family dynamics forever? How could I make sure that my second child would get a chance to shine too?