After facing a possible separation from my high school love, my husband…I had to regroup.  Regrouping when you have children isn’t quite the same as regrouping alone. I had to restructure not only who I was but how I lived. I would have given my right arm to have him stay. Whatever it would take, I was wiling to do. I don’t say this lightly and I DEFINITELY don’t say that out of weakness.  Please never mistake my agreeance and willingness to save my marriage as weakness. In turn honestly it was ssomething that took incredible strength and inner acceptance. I dug deep, cried alot and fought for my marriage.