What makes the perfect family? Who decides what the perfect family consists of? I married my high school sweet heart, owned my own business, as did my husband, had 2 girls and 2 boys…is this perfection? But what about the struggles and criticism we recieved being ten years apart and dating at 15 yrs and 25 yrs old? What about the struggles we faced financially starting our own business, the house on the auction block, the car possibly being repossessed? How about the dark times facing a separation or possible divorce? And 2 boys and 2 girls? What makes this the perfect combination? If I had a dollar for every time I heard that we had the perfect family…blessed, yes but perfect, no.